My Biography
I have always been a Dominant Female. From the time I was 6 years old I treated all the neighborhood boys as My toys and property. We would play army in the walnut orchard surrounding our houses and I was always Commander in Chief. Giving orders just came naturally to Me. I have always despised authority and just followed My own rules. It usually worked better that way anyway. I can remember making My neighbors, two boys a little older than Me, wrestle naked for the privilege of walking Me to school less than a mile away. I would challenge them to dangerous or embarrassing dares to win my affections, and when they offended Me in some way, believe Me, I would make them pay for it. Standing in front of all their friends at school, I would call them nasty names and tell their dirty secrets that they often confessed in the privacy of our tree-house. They knew that if they ran away, it would be worse, so instead they stood shamefaced in front of their peers as I taunted and tormented them. But after a short time, I would usually forgive them and they would be back to following orders. All this, and I wasn't even out of grade school.
In high school it got a bit more formalized. I was very involved in the theater program and was the head of many committees. Whenever I allowed one of the boys to take charge, it either didn't get done or was done entirely wrong, so I was forced to take much of the responsibility for each play production. But I couldn't do everything on My own, so My natural delegating talents surfaced again. When I was a junior, three freshman boys and a sophomore girl dubbed themselves My fan club and I put them to work. They would run errands like getting My lunch, copying papers or delivering messages. They would do anything I required of them. When I would sit at My computer desk in my office at the theatre, typing the program or costume lists, they would sit at My feet waiting for their next assignment.
My most devoted submissive would give Me daily back massages (his father was a masseuse and taught him how) and would write Me poetry. And it wasn't just boys; girls seemed to be infatuated with Me as well. There was a group of girls that volunteered to work on anything I needed for each production. Boys or girls, they worked only to see a smile on My face that appeared when they did something right or accomplished something for Me. The wrath they felt when something was wrong or didn't get done was rough indeed. I have always had something of a short temper, and I hate it when someone doesn't pay attention to a task I set them upon. A mistake would set back My schedule and put Me in a foul mood and they would all have to tiptoe on eggshells not to set off a berating. I do not tolerate laziness or stupidity. But they all seemed to accept this as My nature and loved Me nevertheless. Regardless of the lectures and embarrassment I would cause, they all regarded Me with respect and care. I got things done that no one else in the class could. I could motivate people like no-one else, whether it was with a hug for a good job or a black stare when excuses were offered for failures. I ran that theater with a steely grip and an angelic smile. I always got what I wanted. I always have.
So, when I was first invited to a Foot fetish party in Manhattan, I couldn't help but be intrigued. Seeing all of the beautiful Powerful Women with men literally beneath their feet, I knew I had found a way to satisfy this desire to own men, to have men acknowledge and appreciate Me, and submit to My superiority. I have always enjoyed having My feet massaged, but until meeting foot fetishists I had never had them rubbed by anyone who would take such care and who had such an intimate knowledge of the curves of a Woman's foot.
At My first party, I watched more than I participated, but I enjoyed each moment immensely. I saw the great variation in foot domination and foot worship. There were men being stepped on and suffocated with soles, men that were sucking and slobbering on toes with great abandon, and men looking content just to be giving relaxing pleasure while rubbing the feet of the blissful Women. Yes, I realized, even though I had never heard of foot fetish up until this point, this was where I belonged.
After that first event, I was excited to learn everything I could about this sexy, kinky world. So I immediately jumped in with both feet! I spent a lot of time watching sessions in public dungeons at events, to see how each Woman and man approached each particular type of play. It wasn't long until I learned what I liked and what I didn't: long luxurious massages, yes; tickling, no; stuffing my whole foot in a man's mouth, yes. And there was always some new technique to discover and try out on a willing little foot slut.
I soon found out that I also loved to trample. I was a bit timid at the beginning; I had never stood on a man before, let alone jumped on one. But I learned to love the exhilaration of bouncing on a man's flesh as he grunted or moaned underneath My feet. I began by first dancing on him, My human dance floor. Moving to the rhythm of the music allowed Me to start to let loose and get My feet moving more than the apprehensive stepping I was doing before. After seeing the glow in My slave's eyes as I moved more and more confidently, I soon began jumping and dancing and squishing with complete abandon. And it was wonderful. Never have I felt more invigorated after squashing a man completely for as long as I desired it. It was an incredible workout and awesome power trip, and now I'm addicted. If I don't have someone to trample for a week, I start to get a little cranky and more than a little feisty. It's just a good way to work out life's natural frustrations!
This all fit in quite nicely with My naturally dominant personality, and it actually started to strengthen it. I had an easy time with all the foot domination; ordering the men to suck My toes properly and focus on each one individually was gratifying. And if a sub didn't do exactly as I wished, I knew he had to be punished so that he would understand who was in charge. This is how I found My love of spanking, flogging, face slapping and other more BDSM oriented play. A submissive that does not pay attention to instructions must be taught to focus on Me and My needs only, not to get distracted by his own desires and fantasies. So I began to learn the techniques of inflicting all levels of pain and humiliation.
Attending fetish and kink events all over the world, watching scenes and talking to as many people in the Lifestyle and in the Industry as possible helped Me to get a very round idea of what the BDSM world consists of and how it is such a fluid experience. I played with many, many men and women during this time, and had numerous opportunities to try out all kinds of fetishes and kinky acts. I felt so excited as I explored myself and others in this taboo and creative way, and found Myself thriving in the fetish world.
In 2003 I opened My own private, professional dungeon in Boston, MA and also launched My membership website (PrincessKali.com) to indulge My exhibitionistic desires, and share My kinky adventures with cyber sluts around the world. I started doing Domination, both in session and on video, full time and started to build My personal stable of submissives as well as hone My skills in dungeon play.
Of course, since I started at foot fetish events, I always held a special place in My heart for them. In 2004, I became a part of the Footnight family, a national franchise that hosts foot fetish parties all around the US. Throwing foot worship parties in Boston gave Me even more opportunities to talk to and play with local fetishists and continues to be an important part of My kinky lifestyle and business. IN fact, in 2007 I expanded My Footnight territory and started doing an event in Washington DC/Baltimore in addition to Boston!
Feeling grateful for the many learning opportunities I was having, that same year I decided to start sharing My growing knowledge and experience through teaching at the same kink events I had gone to to learn. Over the years My desire to share My kinky skills to help other individuals and couples has grown to a full blown passion for spreading the 'kinky gospel' (as I like to say!) I have taught and presented on BDSM lifestyle and profession aspects at educational institutions (Brown University, Harvard, RISD) as well as fetish events (TES, NELA, Fetish Flea Market, Kink in the Caribbean, DomCon, etc.). In 2007 I opened The Kink Academy, and created Kink Positive, both as a way to teach My particular brand of kink oriented sex education.
Now, I continue to keep Myself busy being a Professional Pervert. I spend a lot of time shooting content for My website, which gets updated once a week with non-scripted scenes with all of My personal sluts and submissives. I also use the footage to add new titles to My line of personally produced DVD's covering all of My fetishes and interests. I have started booking professional sessions again at My new dungeon location, and have added quite a bit to My toy and tool collection as well as now having an infinite number of techniques of play at My disposal. I enjoy the adventure of both psychological and physical plays both in private and public. What can I say…it's good to be The Princess!