Frequently Asked Questions

How did You get started in the BDSM Scene?

I discovered the organized kink Scene through the delightful practice of foot fetish. After attending a Foot Worship party in New York City in 2002, something inside Me clicked and I realized My destiny had led Me there to have My feet suckled and My power and beauty worshipped. I like to say that at that point, I jumped into the kinky community with both feet! Since then I have become an all around Professional Pervert including domination, fetish pornography, education, events, and more!

Where do You hold Your sessions?

I play in a private dungeon in Boston, Massachusetts which is where I hold all of My sessions. It has 4,000 square feet of play space with a full bathroom (including shower). See My Play space page for more details about the equipment and toys available. I also enjoy doing public scenes and sessions, both out in the vanilla world shopping and dining and at fetish events locally and around the world.

What is sessioning with You like?

There are two different ways to experience being in My presence. Currently, I enjoy doing sessions with those who prefer to come in for a set scheduled amount of time as well as taking the very occasional devoted submissive as My personal pet. It is essential to Me to help everyone who enters My play space to explore their sexuality in a healthy and liberated way. I enjoy adapting Myself according to each individual who puts themselves in My hands (within My own interests of course).

When you come in for a first time session, I will spend some time discussing your past experiences, interests and fetishes, as well as any training goals you might have. I believe this time is important as a way for Me to get into your head, so that I can craft an experience that we will both enjoy. I am a multifaceted Woman and have a wide variety of interests that I engage in during My sessions. I encourage communication because the more I know about you, the more truly I can enjoy you as My toy!

Remember, multi-hour and extended sessions are a wonderful way to more deeply experience My control and passions. However, plenty of fun can be had in a one hour session as well!

Can a session be booked without making a deposit?

No. I have been a proud member of the 'sex industry' since 2000, and I have developed a system for scheduling sessions with new applicants. The system is designed to ensure the safety and discretion of both My existing and future clients. That includes your safety as well. I won't give My address out to just anyone who wants it, and I'm sure that when you become a regular visitor to My dungeon you will appreciate My strict rules for other newcomers.

I require a deposit and I don't make an exception for anyone. If you are not able to pay the Tribute through the online service I use, then you will have to make sure to leave enough time to send it through snail mail.

What is your return policy?

If you have to cancel then I will decide how the Tribute paid is to be used (depending when and how you cancel) and My refund policy is subject to change. I am a very reasonable Woman, so be honest and communicate early if there is a scheduling issue on your end. If I have to cancel or reschedule then the Tribute will be put towards a future session or will be refunded back to you.

Is there a way to receive a discount on the session Tribute?

I am not a bargain Domme and there is no negotiation about the amount I charge for sessions. My Tribute is appropriate for someone of My skill and passion, and if you don't know that then you haven't done your research. I offer discounts on multi-hour sessions (4 hours or more) but it is entirely up to My discretion.

(By the way, No you can NOT clean My house to get a discount on a session, don't you think I already have someone to do that?)

How do i impress You?

  • Don't treat Me like a service Domme or like I am supposed to be at your beck and call, it doesn't work like that in My corner of the Universe.
  • Educate yourself about Me via the information on this website and always approach Me with honesty, sincerity and a willingness to obey.
  • If I give you an assignment, complete it promptly.
  • Send a Tribute. There are few pleasures greater than taking your willing money or receiving a thoughtful gift. If you are unsure of yourself, then visit My Wish List page for a variety of Tribute ideas and methods.
  • However, don't think that because you have "paid" Me, that you are entitled to be rude or make demands, always make your requests respectful.
  • Don't waste My time. Understand that I am a very busy Woman and that I correspond with a huge number of people. If more than a week has passed and you have not heard from Me, send a respectful inquiry asking if I have received your message. Due to the large amount of emails I receive each day, yours might have gotten lost in the shuffle. Or maybe I did respond and it was sent to your spam folder. Check there first.
  • Do not send Me curt or one-line emails, they will be deleted immediately. Put as much thought into your correspondence as you would like Me to put into our playtime.

What qualities do you find distasteful in Your submissives and clients?

I will not tolerate any insolence or rude behavior. Whether you are a fetishist or a submissive, you WILL act with respect and appreciation for My time. I will not tolerate any waste of My time or inquires from cheap, rude men. If I do not feel that you have approached Me with respect you will be ignored.

Of course, it goes without saying (or at least it should) that proper personal hygiene is also extremely important. Clean yourself from top to bottom, inside and out before you present yourself at My feet. Also, talking about how great looking you are, how big your dick is, or what a devoted submissive you are doesn't impress Me. I've heard it all before, and actions speak louder than words.

Do You accept Personal submissives to serve You full time or 24/7 RT?

I have had a number of personal servants who have been with Me for years, and I have found the relationships to be fulfilling and intimate. However, it is much harder for someone to become a personal slave at this point due to My full schedule. Being a personal sub to Princess means more work and dedication than just coming in for a "session" and requires devotion and generosity. I expect quite a bit more from My personal submissives, so if you are interested in that type of relationship then be aware of what you are getting yourself into. Of course the rewards match the effort but it is a process of demonstrating your sincerity and dedication to My happiness above all else (even your own desires) and does not happen overnight. I recommend you spend some quality time reading everything possible on My free and membership sites to make sure that you are compatible with My expectations. Otherwise I recommend just becoming a devoted playtoy and visiting Me regularly for traditional sessions.

**Any sub who inquires about being a personal slave without sending an impressive Tribute will be immediately dismissed.

**Being a personal submissive is NOT the way to get free sessions. It is a way to experience a deeper devotion to and more intimate role in the life of ONE true Dominant and Superior Woman. Me.

Do You travel to other cities?

The cities I visit most frequently are Baltimore/DC, San Francisco, New York, and Philadelphia. However, I enjoy traveling around the US and the world all year long. I often travel for conventions and events, so watch My calendar to see if I will be in your area in the future. I am also available to travel for sessions. If you are interested in having Me visit your location you will be responsible for My travel expenses (see below) in addition to session Tribute. You will have to make a deposit ahead of time to book the session as well as taking care of the travel expenses up front.

What does 'travel expenses' include?

Airfare or cost of car rental, gas, tolls depending on your location plus Hotel Accommodations - One Room with Double beds, and all Food Expenses. Travel expenses do not include session Tribute. Session Tribute will be determined separately based on negotiated play, with at least a 4 hour minimum.

Do You do this just for the money?

Absolutely not. If I do not wish to spend time training you or if your presence offends Me then I do not care how much money you have. If you do not share My interests or if you are rude or disrespectful, then I will not play with you. I am passionate about all forms of Domination and take pride in the art and craft of the BDSM activities I engage in.

Do You hate men?

Not generally. I do understand men, and can appreciate those that entertain Me and make themselves useful. The men I am not fond of are arrogant, macho men better known as jackasses. I have no problem putting that sort in their place, and have taught a number of disrespectful, misogynistic men a lasting lesson.

Are any sexual acts allowed?

No. While the activities in the dungeon are very sensual in nature, there will be absolutely NO sexual interaction.

Will You go out on a date with me?

No. I do not socially date My slaves or clients. End of subject.

Do You switch (sub)?

Nope.

Do You offer Double Domina sessions?

Yes. I have the pleasure of knowing and working with a number of beautiful dominant Women in Boston, New York, Washington D.C., and California. Click here for more pictures and more information.

Do You have a variety of outfits and toys? Can i tell You what i want You to wear?

Actually, you can never 'tell Me" to do anything, I'll just laugh at you if you try that ; ) But I welcome respectful requests. I have a large fetish wardrobe, but a lady like Me can never have enough to wear! I have a major fetish for kinky clothing, it puts Me into such a super sexy mindset when My body is encased in latex or bound up in a corset. Of course I don't NEED to be all dressed up in order to Dominate you, My power doesn't exist in My clothing, it comes from inside of Me and high heels and such merely accentuate that…

See My Dungeon Page to view a list and pictures of the equipment and toys at My well equipped play space. Of course I am always looking to expand My toys and implements so if there is something in particular that you do not see; present it to Me as a gift and you will be used to break it in.

Can i have my session videotaped?

Yes, if you would only like a copy for your personal use then I can arrange for a videographer for an extra fee. Either you will be given the tape directly from the camera or for another fee you can have it put in DVD form.

Can i be one of Your video submissives?

Anyone who books a session can have it videotaped and posted on My website without paying the videographer fee (The usual hourly Tribute is still required). I am always looking to shoot footage for My site and it is an excellent way to explore "public" humiliation without actually being in public. I will allow you to shoot with or without a mask, whichever you are most comfortable with.

If you would like the content posted on My website you will need to sign a release with your real name and I will take a picture of your driver's license. No one will ever see it; it is only for legal verification of age. After the shoot you will receive a disc with all of the photos on it, if you would like a DVD made with the video footage that can be arranged for a small extra fee.