Lifestyle or Pro?
Over the years these two words have developed very specific meanings for Me, and I have come to discover that they are two sides of the same coin, or in My case, two sides of the same Life. I have always done what has been most appropriate for My style and interests, in order to experience this industry in the healthiest way.
I have always considered Myself to be Lifestyle, regardless of accepting Tribute, because I have a very comprehensive and authentic approach to what I do. It has never been just a "job" for Me; it is a way of life. I am a very proud kinkster that happens to make a living doing what I'm passionate about, playing with perverts. Lots, and lots of perverts ; )
In the past, I have been more attracted what might be considered Lifestyle-like relationships with the men who have come to play with Me. I believe that the more loyalty, devotion, and trust that those men can develop with Me, the further I can take them down the path of BDSM and their own desires. I prefer for sessions to build upon each other, so that the more time you spend under My control, the deeper the experience gets.
However, I have also learned to appreciate the more 'client' based sessions and even singular sessions. Often, there are men who would like to experience time in My hands, but perhaps location, lifestyle or session preferences don't permit such a dedicated relationship. I am now in a place where I welcome those respectful men who would like to session with Me, but not necessarily 'serve' Me in a committed way. Those sessions can still be meaningful, powerful, and will inevitably leave a lasting effect on those who are able to experience My skills and passions, whatever the time frame.
I look at each session as a personal, educational journey, with Me as your guide. I will teach you to navigate your desires, in a satisfying and healthy way. I will take you on a trip through your own sexuality, and you will be a better person for it. I whole-heartedly believe that sexuality should be approached with playfulness, and an open and accepting mind. With joy, I will "force" you to do those things that deep down, will allow you to be who you want to be, and who you really are.
After almost a decade in the industry, and a life spent playing with boys and girls as My eager toys, I have developed an ever growing philosophy about these experiences. I have also developed a strong dedication to the art of Domination and all of its tools and trappings. I have a firm belief in the exchange that takes place during a session, and I pride Myself on creating a scene that incorporates safe and sane power dynamics and whatever physical manifestation of BDSM/Fetish/Kink is appropriate for all participants. I also believe in dancing on the edge, but only with a willing partner…so if you think you'd like to come and place yourself in My hands…take the first step and introduce yourself…