A Beginner's Session by barium Part 1

Author's Note: This is the story of my first session ever with a Domina. It is not my intent to help you vicariously experience it, but rather to tell the story 100% truthfully and without omission, so that:

  1. Inexperienced members of the realm may understand generally what a "beginner session" with Princess Kali is like,
  2. It can be understood that most of what we see in Princess Kali's videos, especially the beatings, is not a typical beginner's experience,
  3. It can be understood that Princess is excxeptionally good with beginners, and that She enjoys doing first sessions with them,
  4. Other beginners will be encouraged to take up the matter of a first session with Her, or at least discuss it with Her - Princess Kali does answer sincere emails, you know. Just be sure to show Her proper respect and leave any arrogant attitude at home.

This may, unfortunately, make the story rather long and a bit less exciting than the usual story format. barium

More excited than nervous, i hurried to the door to let in Princess Kali, who, walked right in as soon as the door was open, greeting me as She passed by. i really had no idea what to expect, but having had no instructions, i had decided to remain clothed and on my feet until instructed to do otherwise. Princess put down Her bags and before i had closed the door and turned around, She was already standing in front of me in the entryway, She was very friendly and after the brief greeting, Princess pointed to the floor at the foot of the bed. As i got onto my knees at the spot indicated, Princess sat on the edge of the bed, having slipped off Her sandals, saying, "You may greet me properly."

Many times before, i had thought about this moment, never quite feeling worthy to kiss Princess' feet unless i had first shown Her greater respect by kissing the ground under them. Somehow, none of that mattered now. i leaned down and kissed each foot 3 times (the proper greeting). i was somewhat overwhelmed by all this, somehow forgetting that i had been dreaming about this for such a long time until Princess said something about me finally being at Her feet. "Oh, yeah, i am," i finally realized.

"Now, you will go into the bathroom, take off your clothes, and then crawl out here to Me," Princess said very matter of factly. This was no surprise, but it was a bit awkward for me, never before having been naked in front of any woman but my wife. i mentioned this to Princess and She simply said, "Tough."

In spite of that, it was a very relaxed atmosphere. The closest Princess came to ordering me around was when She pointed to the floor, as i mentioned earlier. Otherwise, She just told me what to do in a normal, pleasant voice like it was totally natural and expected me to comply, which, of course, i was happy to do. i was free to talk to Her, or make suggestions, or whatever, which is what i did at this point when i asked Princess if it was a good time for me to give Her some gifts. She liked that idea, naturally, and as i went to the table to get them for Her she pulled up the desk chair to the middle of the floor, where She sat to open them. i was directed to kiss Her feet, which i did, this time, fully recognizing where i was and what i was doing. Princess had just had a pedicure (that was why i waited for Her to arrive a bit longer than i had expected) so Her feet were lightly and pleasantly scented. With me kissing Her feet, Princess began to open the gifts. The first was an envelope with about $40 dollars in it that She didn't yet know was owed to Her. i knew She had opened it when i heard an "Oh, good boy!" .Then She asked me about it, which i explained while continuing to kiss Her feet. In the second package was my credit card, which i was loaning to Her while in town. i also gave Her a bdsm device i had designed and made, complete with instructions. She seemed quite pleased with this as She examined it and read the directions while i continued to kiss Her feet. The last item was just a clothes hanger and required some explanation, so i stopped kissing Her feet and knelt in front of Her to explain. i suppose i could have been in trouble for stopping without permission like that, but it seemed the normal and polite thing to do and Princess just took this in stride.

After a few minutes in the kneeling up position, Princess showed concern for the condition of my knees and She asked me about them. She decided i should just sit on my butt in front of Her with my knees crossed while we talked (Princess does take care of Her slaves). i was there for quite awhile while we discussed my gifts, including my credit card; Princess wanted to be sure of what i had intended it for, being unwilling to bankrupt me while using it. Really, one of the reasons i loaned it to Her was to demonstrate how much trust i had in Her -- certainly enough to loan Her my credit card and put my financial condition in Her hands. i had decided very early on that Princess Kali was trustworthy. First, from what i had seen in Her videos, i was sure She understood compassion and granted it when appropriate. It seems an oxymoron to talk about compassion when you are beating the crap out of someone with a whip, but it isn't. Second, Princess is a known professional, and i knew that She was to be trusted, if for no reason other than to protect Her reputation. Over time the trust grew stronger after reading comments from Her slaves and after a couple of conversations i had with wimpy. By now, i was certain that i could just hand Her my credit card and know that it would be ok. And, in the end, it was.

i was then to learn the delights of being under Princess' feet. Princess instructed me to lie on the ground, face up, in front of the chair with my head next to it and my feet moving out away from the chair. She, of course, then put Her bare feet right on my face, Her heels on my forehead and Her soles over my mouth. i kinda wanted to resume kissing Her feet, this time from below, but i restrained myself. Princess said i was to learn that this was my natural and proper place, literally, and that She would spend a lot of time teaching me that this session. She wanted me to concentrate on what it felt like to be there and to memorize it, and to be able to always recall this experience. She kept me there quite awhile. i was really surprised that i didn't feel humiliated or embarassed by this. She just made it seem natural. What amazed me even more, was that Princess' perfect feet, are indeed perfect. They are incredible soft, even on the bottom and felt good on my face. i learned to enjoy being in that postion.

It is a known fact that Princess loves room service, so while She had use of my credit card, She had me pick up the phone and order crab cakes for Her, two orders of them. i was, then, directed to stand against the wall with my forehead pressed against it, and while i was doing this, Princess apparently laid out Her whips on the bed ( i saw them there later). Room service came, and Princess told me that i would remain where i was while it was delivered. Then, She was very clear that while She would allow them brought into the room, She would not allow room service to step outside of the entryway into a position from which i could be seen.


A Beginner's Session with Princess Kali - by barium Part 2

Princess spent quite awhile with me against the wall, mostly whipping me lightly on the butt and back with the single tail whip i had purchased earlier for Her. i had expected Her to bring the whip with Her, since She usually likes to test Her gifts out on the slave who gives them to Her. It was a very nice and appreciated surprise how lightly She did, and could, use the whip on me, since i was somewhat scared of it, having never been whipped before. It was even a better surprise to learn that She was enjoying this a lot and that She didn't have to beat me hard to enjoy Herself. i know She must have also been enjoying the crab cakes at the same time since later i noticed that they were all eaten. Sometime in the middle of this, Princess showed me the whip and explained how excellent the craftsmanship was and how the whip would last a lifetime for Her. It is no wonder that i had pleased Her so when i sent it to Her for Christmas. This made me a very proud slave. Also, during this time, Princess lightly felt the marks on my butt with her fingers as i have seen Her do in Her videos. i knew this would feel nice, but i had no idea -- i was in heaven! i still head that way when i think back on that experience. It wasn't until She left , though, that i had the priviledge of seeing those marks, even light as they were, in the mirror. For some reason, it is a very good feeling to see them. They were mostly gone by the time i got home to Los Angeles, 3 days later. i could still see light marks on my back, though, if i looked carefully. Princess also had a dragontail whip which She used like a paddle. When i said i wasn't familiar with a dragontail, She took the time to show it to me. What other tools she used on me, i am not certain, having had my face against the wall.

Sometime in all this, Princess took out a pair of nipple clamps and asked me if i thought i could handle them. i responded with a yes as Princess clipped the first one one my right nipple. Of course it hurt a lot and i didn't cry out in pain or anything, but my legs did an obvious buckling which gave Princess some hesitation about clipping on the second one, but when i stood back up staright, She tentatively clipped the other onto my left nipple. my legs buckled, not so much this time, but i think i went glassy eyed. Princess decided that She had better remove them, even though i told Her i was ok. (As i said before, Princess does take care of Her slaves). I was a bit disappointed because that was a very difficult thing that i felt i could have done for Princess, though i didn't really know how long i would last with them on.

Princess let me talk to Her throughout all of this and if i had questions, She allowed me to ask them.

Before it was over, Princess said She wanted me to spend more time under Her feet, so that's what i did for a while longer. This time, though, i found i couldn't breathe - Her feet were blocking both my mouth and nose. i had seen Her do this intentionally to slaves before, but i suspected She didn't plan it with me. It wasn't long before i knew i had to let Princess know that i couldn't breathe, so i started squirming a bit and making muffled noises. Princess spread Her feet a bit and let me breathe.

After more time under Her feet (where i belong), Princess removed Her feet and told me to kiss them each three times, meaning the session was over. i asked if She could pick up each of Her feet for a moment (after kissing each of them properly) which would finally gave me the chance to kiss the ground She walks on. Princess also had me kiss the bottoms of Her shoes 3 time each. That, for some reason, got me very excited.

It was back in the corner for me while Princess put all Her things back in Her bags and somewhere in all this She asked me about my schedule tomorrow!!!! : ) : ) !!!!! Princess was going to allow me to see Her tomorrow, too! As it turned out, She would see if Her schedule could be rearranged for Her to see me tomorrow in Her studio. As far as i was concerned, that meant i would open my schedule for whatever it took, even though it meant leaving for the 9 hour drive back to Washington DC sometime in the evening, meaning a very late arrival to my hotel there.

It was a while before Princes actually left and by the time She did, i had kissed Her feet goodbye twice more, each time enjoying and appreciating the 3 kisses more than the time before. In the meantime, Princess gave me an exercise to do to help me remember what it was like to be under Her feet. And remember it? i certainly do!